What is a heroic relationship? Wouldn't it be a relationship in which both parties felt the deepest love and respect for each other, as opposed to a more surface level relationship where your purpose is to "get along?"
Do not think it takes both parties to create a heroic relationship. Read lesson 5 of this course: "It does NOT take two to tango!"
Your goal now and always should be to experience the fullness of life; not merely a reasonably happy life, but a constant joyous and fully alive experience. But the fullness of life in relationships means turning all your relationships into heroic relationships.
To really achieve heroic relationships, in addition to using this course offered here online free ... also read both these books:
Also available free of charge online:
Course in Political Miracles